This is just a site for me to share my thoughts about life, marriage, motherhood, adoption, and anything else that is cluttering up my mind.
Monday, October 24, 2011
Ode to My Shark Steam Mop
Too Busy...again!
Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.
I most certainly did NOT procrastinate developing a 2 hour presentation for a local hospital for TOMORROW! That is absolutely NOT what I am doing right now (well, RIGHT now I am writing this post...)! I am always prepared for everything I teach WAY ahead of time.
I also did NOT let my 6-year-old take a (edited to correct the nap length!!) 3+ (NOT 6+) hour nap on Saturday (until after 6 p.m.) because I just couldn't bear to wake her up! This also did NOT result in her staying up to watch Soul Surfer with me until 11 p.m. (when bedtime is normally no later than 8!). I always love having my kids around and would never relish the time they are sleeping so I have some quiet time...I also am always a stickler about bed times and would never deviate from that!
And last but not least...I most certainly did NOT oversleep until after 8:00 this morning! (when we should have been out the door before then). We are always on time for everything (including work and school!!). During this time I was NOT groggily getting ready quickly while my dear husband jump started his truck, and fixed a flat tire on my car!
So...what have you NOT done this week??
Alissa ;)
Friday, October 21, 2011
Our Furry Family Members
and we are head-over-heels for her


to catch mice in Mike's shed
and we think they are about
the sweetest things ever

without them now
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Did I mention...?
The conference (Beyond Consequences, Live) was really good. It was on parenting kids who have experienced "trauma". I had been to one before, but this was the first for Mike. I don't have the brain power right now to do a post on the conference and this parenting "philosophy", but I will try to do that in the near future. It has been revolutionary for our family since I was first exposed to it about a year ago!
After the conference, we spent some time at….IKEA!! Love that store! Not that it is all my style, but for some reason, it just makes me happy. What better than a chance to browse through a huge store of unique furniture, home goods, and other fun things while people-watching! Mike was better at the people-watching during this most recent trip than I was. When we got back to the car after our time there he started commenting on some of the different people he had noticed and I hadn't noticed any of them!
After IKEA, we checked into our hotel and I got to take a nap (I LOVE naps, so this was just heavenly!). Our hotel was fine (meaning I was glad I had only paid $35/night for it on priceline.com).
Next we went to Buca di Beppo (also just heavenly!) with my cousin and her husband. Fantastic Italian food served family-style…yum! There really is nothing like sharing a meal (in this case, literally) to connect with people. Then we enjoyed a fire in their backyard later that evening (see my previous post about Sister-cousins).
Slept late in the morning (again...heavenly!) and then went to one of my favorite places! Mudd Lake Furniture is a wonderful place West of the Twin Cities that is a furniture/antique/home decorating store that was started by a former NFL football player! It is truly one of the most unique places I have ever been. Check out their website (and no, I am not being compensated for this plug, I just truly love the place!). On their website check out the "models" in pictures 1 and 3 of their slideshow…yep, we are famous there! (ok, we happened to be there for an event a couple years ago when some of the pictures for their site were taken.)
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Sister-Cousins
I am an identical twin (for those of you who don't know that). My sister and I are very close, and especially when we were younger, were really one unit more than 2 individuals. We did everything together, so our relationship really went beyond that of "typical" siblings.

Now the cousins are all grown up and have families of our own. We don't get to spend nearly enough time together as there are greater distances between us now than the 5 blocks of our childhood. My cousins still are my "extra" sisters, though, and our husbands (and kids) all LOVE to get together as well. It is so great. People have questioned at various times through the years "you are going WHERE?" when the answer is something like "my cousin's son's confirmation..." as generally that is not an event that would necessitate a trip out of state to spend an entire day or more. Wouldn't a card suffice?? Not if it is basically your "nephew", and it is in your ability to be there!
When we do have the chance, we get together for a "Cousins' Night Out". It is a chance for whoever is "home" to get together and reconnect. They are greatly anticipated events! Not for any specific excitement that happens, but for the reconnection with the people we love. Sometimes Cousins' Night Out means we actually go out to eat somewhere, sometimes it means we get together at one of our houses after the kids have gone to bed. ALWAYS it means we laugh, share, laugh some more, remember the past, laugh, talk about the present, laugh, and think about the potential of the future.
Just this past weekend we spent an evening with another cousin and her husband (their boys are now in college!). We went out to eat, had a great meal, sat outside around a fire in their yard (in the rain, under umbrellas), and just enjoyed being together. Ahhh...
Now, I have other cousins who we love as well, and cherish all of them, but these sister-cousins have a special place in my heart.
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
WI Great Northern Railroad
Faded greens...
It was all just absolutely delightful! I highly recommend it if you are looking for a fun, unique excursion. Thanks for joining me on our fun trip! Let me know if you find a "must do"!
Happy exploring to all of you,
Alissa
Monday, October 10, 2011
Too busy!
Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.




